Thursday, August 7, 2008


Do you have them?

I'm sort of an oddball, I don't have any piercings. I tried to get pierced ears once, years ago, never worked out. After that it just didn't seem like a big deal to me and my husband gets to save a lot by not having to buy me earrings for birthdays. LOL Saving money makes him a happy camper. ;-) But piercings seem very popular these days. I've never had to face the decision of my daughters wanting any piercings other than the usual ear piercings. Truthfully, I'm not sure how I'd react. I think I'd be okay, within reason. After all, once the piercings are there, then they’ll be asking for fifty different holes to be filled, right? I don't make that kind of money! LOL

Also, how are you with piercings on the opposite sex? Again, I never faced this as my husband doesn't have any piercings. I used to think it was sexy to see a guy with a pierced ear, but now there's all sorts of body piercings. For some reason the only male with piercings I can think of is Z from Ward's BDB series. LOL Yeah, I sort of did a turn around when I read his book. Suddenly I saw body piercings in a whole new light. But then Z makes everything sexy. LOL Nipple piercings on guys...hmm, it's sort of hot, right?

What about books? Have you read a lot of books where the men are pierced? What was your take on it? Hot or Not? Oh, and give me some titles, I'm looking for more big strong heroes with nipple piercings! LOL

And while I’m at it here, if any of your fine ladies have a hunky picture handy that you want to share—specifically a hunk with piercings—be my guest! I tried to find one, but came up short. Bummer, right?



Regina Carlysle said...

I have ears pierced but am basically a wimp about PAIN. SNICKER. I think the piercings can be very sexy. Must ask Anny Cook about her piercings (not on HER but her characters). Verrrry far out. I still think of the movie A Man Called Horse with Richard Harris. The Indian Tribe pierces his nipples and then lifted him in the air by them. EWWWWW. I'll never forget that scene. Big TIME Guy movie and I usually zone out on those but I'll (shudder) never forget it. OOOWWWW.

Unknown said...

Well I have my ears pierced and that is because in my family all the girls in my family have their ears pierced a couple of months after they are born. It's easy and not as painful if your a baby and can't remember it as you grow older.

I know my uncle use to have both ears pierced from top to bottom and that I think is gross but now he only has a couple of piercings in his ear and a pierced tongue and a piercing in that part between your lips and your chin.

Kelley Nyrae said...

I have my ears pierced but almost never wear earings. I'm not big on jewlery. My hubby has pierced ears. He wears his. He used to have his nose pierced too. It was just a very tiny stud and he looked really, really hot in it! I don't remember what happened but he ended up letting it close years ago. I think depending on the man piercings can be hot. It kind of goes back to that bad boy thing. I have a friend who had an innocent crush on a guy who had tattoos and piercings. I think it was because their lives were do different. It was one of those, I-get-goofy-when-I-see-you-but-it-doesn't-really mean-anything kind of crushes.

I don't like over the top though. I HATE those piercings that stretch huge holes in your ears. Gross.

I think other piercings can be done tastefully and sexy.

Desirée Lee said...

I have loved piercings almost all my life. I was 10 before my parents would let me get my first ear piercing. I now have three in each ear and have wanted more but never got around to it.

For guys I like ear piercings. I can handle nipple piercings, eyebrow piercings and nose piercings but what I really enjoy on a guy is a labret.

I have never personally seen a genital piercing, only photos. I don't know how I would feel about that. It would surely feel odd to have sex with a guy who has a genital piercing, I would think. Never tried it so I don't now for sure.

I am not a fan of tongue piercings. They look ok, but I hate how the ball clicks on the person's teeth as they try to talk. It's very distracting and is a huge turn-off for me.

Too much of a good thing is entirely possible. Too many piercings looks gross, not sexy.

Carpe Noctem,

Regina Carlysle said...

Think I mentioned belly buttons yesterday. I hear they are PAINFUL but I think it varies from person to person. Some of the belly button jewelry is really cute though.

Anny Cook said...

If you want to know about piercing... check out the OhGetAGrip blog for Monday at There's a picture on there of a corsette piercing.

In my Flowers of Camelot series, several of the characters have piercings, um, decorated genitals, etc. It's not a new idea by any means.

If you're incredibly curious, google piercing + the name of the body part you're interested in. You'd be amazed at what people have decided to pierce.

Personally, I have pierced ears. Period.

Anne Rainey said...

Phoebe--I should have had the girls done when they were little, but I didn't. Now my youngest has no desire to get her ears done, she's not big on pain. LOL

Kelley--not crazy about the large holes either.

Des--I like the eyebrow piercing on a guy. I think it's sexy.

Anne Rainey said...

Regina--I never want to see that movie! LOL I hate watching any form of torture in a movie!

Anny--The genitals, huh? Man, that just sounds so painful! It's such a sensitive area! LOL

TamiC said...

I have 17 piercings. Soooo obviously I LOVE them. My boyfriend has piercings also in all the right places!!

Anne Rainey said...

Hi TamiC--Thanks for stopping by! So, were the piercings one of the things that attracted you to your boyfriend? Would you date a guy without piercings?

Just curious. I feel like such a piercing virgin. LOL!!

Judith Rochelle said...

Well, I have pierced ears, and if I were twenty years younger I might consider getting my nvael pierced. It's one of my secret longings. I'm not big on nipple piervings for men but a lot of my heroes who have long hair have one pierced ear. I just think it's very sexy. I could pant after a man with raven silk black hair touching his choulders and a gold stud winking in his ear. In one of Lora leigh's Tempting Seals boosk her hero, Clint, has the underside of his penis pierced and wears a tiny gold ball. My! I'd think that would be extrenely....interesting.

Anne Rainey said...

Judith--I've clearly NOT read that particular Leigh book yet, but I'm definitely going to now! HOT!

Okay, my brain starts to kick in when the issue of genital piercings is brought up. One question, what would happen if the little ball should come off during sex? Would he have to go fishing around in there for it? It makes me squirm rather uncomfortably whenver I think about it. LOL

In books, the genital piercings are hot. On me, not so much. LOL

By the way, I've always wanted my belly button pierced too. hehe!

Regina Carlysle said...

Anny has characters with penis piercings...rows of tiny barbells marching up the length. Ummmm. Wonder how that would FEEL???? HOLY CRAPOLY. Must talk with hubby about that and watch his face turn WHITE. snicker.

Judith, you could do it. I can just imagine a little tiny cowboy boot dangling from your belly button.LOL

Cindy said...

Hey Anne, I have my ears pierced,but thats it,I have to be honest & say if I wasn't so scared of the pain,I'd have my clit pierced,because it is so tiny & hard to find.
As for a males being pierced,I think body piercings can be sexy,but I don't like for a mans ears to be pierced.
By the way,I sent you a private email of a male that was pierced.
thanks Cindy

anny cook said...

Regina, that's called a frenum ladder.

Regina Carlysle said...

A frenum ladder??? Wow. I must do more study on this stuff. Lately, all my knowledge has come for YOU. LOL. Dang, it sounds soooo painful!!!

Regina Carlysle said...

Oh, Cindy. Have you heard if clit piercing is super painful? Wonder if it effects anything??? Hm. Must ask Anny. Maybe she'll know.

Anne Rainey said...

Cindy--I cringe at the thought of intimate piercings. LOL I did get your email, did you get mine?

Anny--I truly learn something new every day. Now, my other question...who decided that needed a name? LOL

Cindy said...

Hey Anne,yes I got your email,saying the kids we're in the room with you.
Regina,I haven't heard if it's real painful or not,but I think it would be,thats why,I just use a clit clip,& it does work really well, you just have to take the time to put it on.

Anonymous said...

Hi Anne. I don't mind piercings, I actually find them really sexy in men. I had my tongue done twice for a few years, just let them close up about 2-3 years ago. I did just read a book by D. Musgrave where the girl had a clit clamp. I had to go online and google it to see what it was lol. Wow are those hot. I could see myself using one or getting a piercing done if I had a honey who wanted to experiment. He'd have to get one too of course lol.

Amy Ruttan said...

I have ears pierced, but I'm too chicken for anything else.

Umm, however ... blush ... I've kissed a man with a tongue piercing and done ... anyways *cough cough*.

I don't like a whole lot of piercings, but done right they can be sexy.

Unknown said...

Willow, was that Foxy that you read? I love that one!

I have 1 piercing in each ear. I had a second in the left but let it close. I've considered redoing it. My sis has multiple ear piercings and likes them. I have an old friend that had her tongue done for her 40th b-day. I harassed her for it. The guy who did it tried to talk her into having her ‘girls’ done, she watched as her niece had her ‘girls’ done, she said no (at least last I heard). He nephew had multiple genital piercings; he said it wasn’t so bad.
I think piercings can be sexy on a guy. I certainly wouldn’t refuse to date a guy because of them. I might think twice if what was attached to the piercing had a potential for hurting me in the process.
I hate those big plugs they are putting in their ears.
Last year on the way to a convention I saw a guy who even had studs somehow put in the back of his head. It was gross.

Anne Rainey said...

Willow--I had to good the clit clamp too. I had no clue! Derek is a fabulous author! I love his stories. :)

Conne--I'm soooo not crazy about those back of the head things. God, it just looks creepy and painful as hell to me.